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imi's avatar

This is brilliant. Heartbreaking but at the same time, brilliant. I loved the way this treats grief as something you keep living with, not something you simply get over. The people are gone, but they never really leave the table. It felt very insightful. I found myself lingering on your sister's section. It speaks to the quiet heartbreak of losing someone twice: first as illness slowly changes them, then to death. I relate to that on a personal level.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you for reading so closely and sharing your thoughts imi. I showed my kids Dead Poets Society, the scene where Keating is explaining Carpe Diem. They only knew Robin Williams for comedy, and not that beautiful, haunting scene. The macabre notion that "we're all food for worms" meets the celebration of life; not to clash, but to remind us existence is fleeting, ephemeral

Suzie's avatar

Beautiful and heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹 the comment on antiques reminded me of my aunty snatching the rings off my grandmothers hand when she had just passed, laying still warm in the hospital bed.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you Suzie. One of the more abstract ideas I wanted to present is that perhaps the departed can be as haunted by life and the living as they linger with us. Every case here illustrates in some small way that they leave behind something or someone, bereavement, pain, vice, regret. And that little 2 line intercession, where some of those same relatives acting like vultures dine at the table, was written with a very careful word selection. I tried not to convey bitterness and disappointment with the behavior of family, that carried themselves in such a despicable manner through life

Y.R. Abisi's avatar

Goddamn Suzie that's intense. Pancake, I was just gonna comment on how tranquil your voice is here. It all came across free of judgment.

PancakeSushi's avatar

🙏🏻 thank you Y R! Much appreciated

Antonio Castellaneta's avatar

This feels like far more than a poem, it reads as an act of remembrance. Every person at the table carries not only a history, but a presence that continues to shape the living.

The final promise of meeting again transforms grief into something unexpectedly gentle. A powerful and deeply moving piece. Thank you for sharing it.

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Thank you Antonio!

Naman's avatar

Vivid and haunting. So relatable at some point and the idea of losing people and meeting them again and relishing a feast is a haunting yet cherished thought too.

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Thank you Naman!

Naman's avatar

My pleasure!

Gary L Taylor's avatar

I liked reading that. The way the dead are remembered, they way you note their appearance, affected by the manner in which they departed and how they gaze (or look away from) the life playing out before them.

Outstanding work.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you very much Gary!

V S Uma's avatar

Remembering the loved ones

Kindles back all the memories in a fillet of seconds

With a pain that can ever be healed

Niceeeeee pancake

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you V S

williamphaynes/elliott's avatar

Reminded me of my parents who were ex-communicated from the Catholic church and later welcomed back after my father's first wife died/ A very personal and well written poem/ I enjoyed

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you William!

HP NOT LOVECRAFT's avatar

This was one of the most interesting and amazing pieces I’ve seen on here. You are a legend as usual. 🫡

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you very much for saying so! It is a bit of a departure for me, and I wasn't sure how it would be received. I appreciate you reading, and your words!

HP NOT LOVECRAFT's avatar

You always offer an unexpected talent with your work. It was real and raw. I appreciated it.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you so much. This was something different but I wanted to try it. Evolution is an ongoing cycle, and sometimes I feel my work getting formulaic and trite, so a little shock to the system is in order. I appreciate you, thank you again for your very kind words 😊

Adrien Saell's avatar

What moved me most is that this never feels like a catalogue of deaths—it feels like a catalogue of relationships. Each person is remembered through a detail only someone who truly loved them would preserve: a laugh, a habit, a phrase, a recipe.

Those small particulars quietly argue that while a life ends, its imprint on others often doesn't...

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you Adrien

Michael Horvich's avatar

WOW. What a beautiful tribute to the people in your life who are no longer with you. Not a "pleasant" read but an open, honest, moving one well worth the read and time. Thank you Mike, Fondly, Michael

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Thank you Mike, glad you enjoyed!

Lyon Vert's avatar

Man your words brought water to my eyes on this sunny day… I’m not sure what else to say… apart from my heart felt every memory written via your pen great poet. ✍️ 🌌

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Thank you Lyon!

Lyon Vert's avatar

No doubt, this was powerfully executed and landed on the heart strong.

Megan Youngmee's avatar

Loved this line:

The table is full of nebulous faces

Forgotten with age or distance

While others resolve from the ether

With terrifying clarity

How those around us have shaped us and created the landscape in which we find ourselves.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you Megan! Death shapes our lives, but I think remembering the departed, and how we carry their actions and efforts into the present and future with us, is vital to healing.

Megan Youngmee's avatar

So wonderfully put

Shadow Pursuit's avatar

The grandmother stanza gets me the most, perhaps for the longing of how it should have been as much as for how it was. Lovely writing, dark and poignant. I look forward to reading more. 🐦‍⬛

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you, Shadow

Fay Richards's avatar

Wow your words never fail to touch me. Beautiful but also heartbreaking. We learn about your family and the part they all played over the years.

Thank you for once again sharing with us your amazing beautiful talent that touches the soul💕🌷💓💗💝

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you 🙏🏻

Roger Browne's avatar

'The hole in his temple

A silent testament

To the wisdom of restraint

And forbearance' 🤣

Dead remembered, as befit the manner in which they conducted their lives. For ill or for good, lingering in the memory daily. I quoted the restraint line, because the poem itself observes, rather than sit heavily in judgement. Nicely done.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you Roger

Claudia B.'s avatar

What stayed with me was how you gave each person their own story before they took their place at the table. By the end, it felt less like a poem about death and more like a tribute to the lives that continue to shape us. Thank you for sharing such a moving and beautifully written piece.

PancakeSushi's avatar

Thank you Claudia!

Claudia B.'s avatar

You’re welcome!